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Identity vs Identification

Ada Musat07/05/2024 |
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Every day, we play various roles in our social and professional relationships, often becoming prisoners of the personas we adopt to meet others' expectations. While these roles can provide us with a sense of stability and understanding in society, they often mask who we truly are and what we truly desire from life. In a world where we are often more concerned with being seen and accepted than knowing and accepting ourselves, it is essential to ask ourselves: who are we truly beyond these roles? How can we free ourselves from the constraints imposed by social expectations and present ourselves authentically to the world?

Life, a Theater Play

In every day life, we navigate through various social and professional roles, embodying characters we've adopted to fit societal expectations and norms. Whether we find ourselves in the role of the heroic mother, the hopeful son, the devoted spouse, or the exemplary employee, we often identify so strongly with these roles that we forget who we truly are beyond them. The need to be seen and accepted for what we present to the world can drive us to conform to norms and reinforce these roles, even when they don't authentically reflect our inner selves.

However, life is not a theater play, and each of us is far more complex than the characters we play. Behind the social masks and assigned roles lies a deep and authentic truth waiting to be discovered and expressed. An essential human need is to be known and accepted for who we truly are, beyond the fears and insecurities that hinder us from showing our vulnerability and authenticity.

Therapy involves the courage to change and negotiate the roles we play in life, encouraging us to step out into the world and present ourselves in a more authentic manner, independent of the opinions of those around us.


Therapy and the journey to self-discovery

Therapy offers a safe and supportive space to explore this journey of self-discovery. Through therapy sessions, we have the opportunity to meet ourselves authentically and explore our identity beyond the roles we play in everyday life. It's an opportunity to understand our needs, values, and deep desires, and to express our true identity authentically and freely.

An important aspect of this journey is exploring the impact our roles have on our mental and emotional well-being. Often, we identify so much with these roles that we forget who we are outside of them, leading to frustration, confusion, and even loss of self. In therapy, we have the chance to examine and confront these aspects, to break free from the constraints imposed by social expectations, and to reconnect with our authentic self.

Furthermore, therapy encourages us to find a balance between fulfilling social roles and expressing personal authenticity. It's important to remember that we don't have to be prisoners of our roles but can use them as tools to express our true identity and fulfill our personal goals and aspirations.


Therapy, a precious guide

To conclude, the search for authentic identity is a complex and profound process that can bring us greater understanding and fulfillment in life. Through therapy, we have the opportunity to explore and express our true identity and free ourselves from the constraints imposed by social expectations. It takes courage and self-compassion to allow ourselves to be known and accepted for who we truly are, and therapy serves as a reliable partner in this journey of self-discovery.

On this path towards authenticity and self-knowledge, therapy acts as a precious guide, providing us with the courage and tools necessary to negotiate and change our roles, and to embrace our authentic identity. Therefore, let's explore together the importance of presenting ourselves to the world in an authentic way and discover the benefits that this journey can bring.

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